Posted by Mister Metal on September 15, 2002 at 21:02:02:
In Reply to: Re: dealing with bein undesirable.. posted by Bob - the Alien on September 15, 2002 at 03:55:51:
: : i just feel that at times..i am not the most likable person or at least thats what i read into..like just how people seem to back off like they are being forced into a corner..i know i am this in your face,speak my mind kind of guy..and at times i just want to have people embrace what i have to offer..but i know that even tho i feel that most people cant or just dont want to deal with me..that maybe GOD can use those things about me that just make people uneasy...or pissed off..or just plain stretches them..they need that..those people that piss you off so much..you can learn from them...just a thought..i pissed off someone who i think is a really neat person..i tried to get that across to them..and i just seem to get that person uneasy whenever i talk to them..but hey i have done what i know is what needs to be done..and GOD is in control.
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: We are all unlikeable at one time or another. I don't think that anyone that I have talked to claims to be 100% likeable all the time. But that's just being human. It seems to me that everyone on this board, myself included, thinks that you should continue to be who you are. And we will continue to be who we are. Sometimes, yes, that may cause conflict. We all are flawed, we all are trying to improve ourselves, we will all say things or do things that tick others off, and we will all forgive each other for such things.
: And you are very right that when these things happen, it can be a learning experience for the people involved.
: The one other thing that I will say is in response to your desire to "have people embrace what you have to offer". I think that maybe they already do, but they embrace it in a different way than you expect. I'm not sure what reaction you are looking for, but when I was out there and seeing everyone together, I saw people who love you.
: With Love,
: Bob
well i just dont see it at times..i get into my head..and i know i shouldnt..i just try to love people..and times that just dont work..like people run..and it sucks..hey i will still keep on with that which i know i need to do rite?? yes..thanks bob..and yeah..eh i know that i am loved..inside i know..its my hard cranium that has a hard time digesting this..it dont work out in my head.
k..i am out.