Posted by Mister Metal on December 03, 2002 at 09:52:36:
In Reply to: Re: guys..ehh i am over it.. posted by jason on December 03, 2002 at 09:40:21:
: : meanin as in my friendships with guys..i have noticed my feeling very detached almost apathetic in my relating to other males..its just where i am at..i have to be honest..i see a pattern..i seem to befriend more girls..i just have no patience with many guys..plus i am very sensitive..so i feel that few guys will appreciate that..its just hard..eh i dunno if anyone understands..just ventin here about how i am feelin as of late..
: Hi there...
: You seem like a nice person, 'Metal, and I can definitely understand where you are coming from. I am finding more and more, though, that it is up to the sensitive man to set an example for those "beer-guzzling football-watchers" (which is a stereotype - I have a very close friend who fits this description, but he also happens to be a very sensitive and talented painter).
: I believe my sensitivity is my strength -- much like a seismograph (sp?) which can accurately measure the graphic range in power demonstrated by earthquakes.
: I say use that sensitivity to your advantage; I say add 'guy-patience' to your list of virtues; turn on that meter when dealing with other men, and watch meaningful male relationships flourish...
: Love & Rockets,
: J
i honestly am tryin...to be honest..i dont have much patience with people period anymore..
i am tryin tho..especially with guys..i felt like it was a lost cause..and still feel this way to an extent....guy patience is somethin i need..especially when our church as of now has a few more girls regularly attending then guys...the few that are goin as of late are nice..actually i have been tryin to set up a guys nite out thing..its somewhat loosely organized..but its gettin there..i truly am tryin to bond with other guys..i guess cuz i see no way as how its gonna happen i just get discouraged..thats all..but hey i am just talkin about me...things will work..maybe not the way i think they will..but yeah.