Posted by kat on December 06, 2002 at 18:06:03:
In Reply to: Re: guy trouble posted by Mister Metal on December 03, 2002 at 08:46:26:
: : : : meanin as in my friendships with guys..i have noticed my feeling very detached almost apathetic in my relating to other males..its just where i am at..i have to be honest..i see a pattern..i seem to befriend more girls..i just have no patience with many guys..plus i am very sensitive..so i feel that few guys will appreciate that..its just hard..eh i dunno if anyone understands..just ventin here about how i am feelin as of late..
: : : i know, guys are hard to get to know. but i think it's because they don't know how to reach out to each other. i think it's an american thing. see ya, Bill
: : Yeah, guys all just drink beer and watch football and sit around and fart and stuff. It's disgusting. Gimme a cat fight anyday. ;-)
: well honestly dood..i dont like beer..and football is out of the question!! no sports for me..gimme some black metal or some metalcore..even a lil grindcore..no sports please..sports jackets yes..no sports..
: oh and bill you are right it is an american thing..our culture has lied to men makin em think that they have be insensitive hard asses...i just hate it...cuz i am sensitive and all of the sudden either makes me questionable in regards to sexual preference or just makes me wierd...
: i just wish other guys would not be scared to be who they truly are...well there are a few..i emphasize the few part..
: oh and if you want a cat fight you dont have to look too far paster steve! i am catty in my ways fasho..people have been known to see me butt heads..ehehe its just this tendency i have. yep.
I have one comment here and it's only because I am a bitter old hag.
The "culture" Metal refers to actually does not lie, it only echoes, and what it echoes is not that men have to be insensitive hard asses; rather it echoes that men should behave like spoiled, irresponsible, selfish boys. Present company excepted. : ) Love ya like crazy!