Posted by Fiiiyer on April 18, 2003 at 10:36:06:
In Reply to: MEAN PEOPLE DON'T SUCK CUZ NICE PEOPLE DON'T NOTICE! posted by THISTLE on April 18, 2003 at 09:29:15:
Hello Miss Thistle...
...and how are you feeling today?
I totally suck at trying to always say nice things about everyone all the time. I tend to stay silent when I feel I can't say anything nice...and then later, try and figure out whether or not I feel like even thinking about them long enough to try and find something nice to say. (she says with a cocked eyebrow).
But then I wonder about the other side of the stick, I've been there...I was a horrid person and no one could find anything nice to say about me...even me. But someone saying something nice, or just sending me their good vibes would have made a world of difference.
And then there's the whole...
Should I be pro-actively nice or passivly nice? If I'm passivly nice (aka..keeping my mouth shut instead of saying something mean) is that enough?
Whaddya' think?
~N~
ps...and any twin of yours can't be ugly! Grumpy perhaps, but never ugly!