Posted by PS on April 06, 2003 at 13:16:17:
In Reply to: two kinds of people.... posted by giveawayboy on April 06, 2003 at 12:46:46:
: here's the difference, some people willfully distance themselves from a group of friends or "O.K." a church, and then occasionally creep around in the shadows taking pot shots at the character or intentions of members of that group or church. then there are others, who really are not 'trying' to distance themselves but for some reaoson or another are on some kind of hiatus or perhaps feel that they cannot relate. i'm not sure what their reasons are but you can tell that they are not hostile or accusatory. such people care enough to admit distance while keeping some kind of connection within a spirit of friendship. this is commendable. Marcos, you are in the latter group. i for one respect the heck out of you.
I would agree. You are a good person and we love you. If you have to be away for a time, you are allowed. No way we would ever imagine you trying to hurt anyone. :-)
There are some now who can't just admit their own condition. Instead they harbor bitterness and attack others to try to relieve their misery. Not a week goes by that I don't get an denigrating email from one person, while a couple others just like to bad mouth behind backs. Doesn't hurt us, of course, but it is killing them. Sad...